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According to these women, great sex comes down to these 5 factors. Olive Persimmon had only had sex with two people less than ten times in her life at the age of 30. NBC News BETTER quotes Persimmon as saying, "I didn't want to be that person anymore." "I wanted to be in a relationship, find love, and have satisfying sex. Vietnamese sex culture

 She claims that the lack of intimacy inspired her to become a great lover, but that her expectations were not entirely met. Great sexuality is about relinquishing control. When Persimmon finally engaged in sexual activity once more, her only thought was, "Am I doing this right? Does this position make my body appear sexy? What did that strange sound we just made mean? According to Persimmon, "I was so very much in my head and judging myself, and judging my partner, and trying to figure out what the hell was going on.

 She claims the issue was that she mistakenly thought having all the "tips, tricks, and positions" was all that was required to be a great lover, but now she realizes there is much more to it. Excellent sexual encounters are sensual. According to sex educator and speaker Sarah Byrden, many people view sex as a performance that they must perfect rather than as a sensual experience. Byrden asserts that pleasure is not a mechanical process.

 Pleasure has to involve things like communication and relaxation, trust, eye contact... sort of relating [to each other], and tuning into something more personal than what we're supposed to be doing," says the philosopher. According to Byrden, many couples have orgasm as their end goal both their own and their partner's.

 She claims that while orgasm is significant, we shouldn't put too much emphasis on it. I want to open it up more to the context of orgasmic pleasure rather than this one goal, she says, "deconstruct orgasms as a single event that we're working toward." Bryden suggests viewing sex as playful rather than seeing it as a performance.

 She inquires, "How turned on can you get without going right to the genitals." "Can you both explore in a way that makes you feel very aroused?" Related Connection is the key to great sex. Persimmon embarked on a journey of sexual self-discovery in an effort to improve her situation, which she describes in her hilarious book "The Coitus Chronicles: My Quest for Sex, Love, and Orgasms." She learned a lot about herself through orgasmic mediation sessions and BDSM classes.

What she discovered, according to her, was that she had a great deal of shame regarding sex and a great fear of intimacy that made her avoid it. She recalls, "I didn't know how to give up control when it came to sex and dating. I like to be in control, I was kind of a control freak.

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