How to Develop Your Sexual Life

 

Before I started working as a sexologist 11 years ago, I did this for myself in an effort to "grow" sexually. I've been instructing this, so I thought I'd share it with you. Make a mental or written list of everything you've ever wanted to do sexually but haven't. Choose the easiest thing to do and make a plan to do it for you instead of him, such as wearing lingerie, introducing blindfolds, experimenting with a new blowjob technique, etc. Vietsub Sex Movies

Choose those that are reasonable, attainable, and don't necessarily require their consent because they are "low hanging fruits." Set a personal goal to try one new thing (for you) every time you have sex and see if your sense of playfulness, adventure, or empowerment doesn't increase. Consider what you're doing right now for YOU to develop, learn, and evolve, not just to please your partner. take action with confidence. You will start to feel more empowered, self-assured, and open about sex and sexuality as you cross items off your list.

You might begin to understand that it's inappropriate or impractical to perform certain acts on your partner without their consent. It's time to start speaking up more now. Practice speaking up and making suggestions after sex, such as "What would you like to do next time? I would like..." as you cross more items off your list. Additional communication advice: In what circumstances should you do this? -I observed that the conversations I had about sex after sex with my former partners were the most casual and open (both physically and emotionally).

 What is the procedure for doing this? Try to engage them in a brief conversation about what they like to do next (perhaps something they haven't tried and would like to try, if you are brave). Of course, it's not just what you say, but how you say it that matters. A light, inquisitive, and detached tone should be used, almost as if you don't care.

Be ready: When you ask your partner to be completely honest with you about their sexual desires, you never know what the response might be (be honest and try not to act shocked, even if you are). It's healthy to talk about your partner's sexual needs, wants, and desires since everyone has different sexual preferences.

It's called "talking about it" for a reason; discussing sex doesn't mean you HAVE to engage in it. Rephrasing: "I would rather have an open conversation about sex than be so conservative that my partner is afraid to talk to me about sex." Be observant. Instead of reacting negatively when your partner desires to engage in a sexual act that makes you uncomfortable, afraid, or judgmental, how about trying to understand why they want to? Ask them their "Why" if you're curious.

I've discovered that I am more likely to be "game" to do something if I understand why they are doing it, even if it is just once. Of course, I also need to examine my own comfort level with performing this sexual act. Keep in mind that you should always come first! Keep learning. Naturally, this brings my list of recommendations to a close. What we don't know is unknown to us.

The only way to learn is to approach it with a learning mindset, and the same is true of sex and sexuality. Be one of those people who doesn't believe they need to learn about sex because they have three children. Procreation is only one aspect of sex. You will continue to experience your relationship with your sexuality (you as a sexual being) until the day you pass away.

Books, videos, workshops, blogs, and social media all provide learning opportunities. Numerous of these resources are totally free. And naturally, I would advise you to seek sexuality coaching or counseling from a knowledgeable and committed professional like myself. If you have a sexual problem that has persisted for longer than six months, you should seek help from a sex coach rather than someone who claims to have completed a two-day, two-week, or two-month certificate. Keep yourself and others safe outside.

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