Why aren't straight women having as many orgasms as men

 

Lesbian women and men experience far more orgasms than straight women do. We must close the "orgasm gap" right away. Because the orgasm gap is not a very well-known phenomenon, we asked Tanya Koens, a sex therapist, to explain it to us. Why is it there? How can we make it right? The orgasm gap is what? Simply put, the orgasm gap is the difference between how frequently men and women experience orgasms during Vietnam Sex Movies

Tanya explains that compared to 89 percent of gay men and 86 percent of lesbian women, 95 percent of straight men orgasm during sex every time. But when it comes to the percentage of straight women experiencing orgasms during sex, that number rapidly declines. According to statistics on casual hookups, only 40% of women and 80% of men experience orgasms during a first hookup, making the percentage of straight women who always experience them even lower.

The orgasm gap: Why does it exist? The orgasm gap can be explained by a number of different factors. According to Tanya, common misconceptions about what causes an orgasm contribute to the fact that women don't always experience them during sex. As Tanya explains, "If we look at movies and porn — we're talking about heterosexual sex here — it looks like you put a penis inside a vagina and then the women will automatically cum, and it's a few thrusts and then everyone's happy.

For a lot of women, getting an orgasm requires direct clitoral stimulation." Added justification? Very few couples give the woman enough time to become sufficiently aroused. According to Tanya, it typically takes a woman 45 to 60 minutes to become fully aroused, and during that time, a lot of things must occur in order for a penis to enter the vagina painlessly and easily.

Many people mistakenly believe that the vagina is just a tiny opening waiting for the penis to pay it a visit, but in reality, it usually behaves more like a squashed flat balloon that needs to be aroused. Tanya asserts that "[women] have the same type of erectile tissues as men, but all on the inside." "That stuff needs a lot of time to play into things," How can the orgasm gap be filled? You are aware of the orgasm gap, so how do we close it? Tanya, however, has some advice.

Penetration is insufficient. Kate, a listener to The Hook Up, has never experienced orgasmic penetration. "I've just faked it in every relationship and every hookup I've ever had," says Kate. In any case, when you're a little younger, you don't really know what you're supposed to be feeling, so when I was in my first committed relationship, I kept hearing stories about orgasms and wondered if it was appropriate.

Tanya claims that most women are in Kate's position because only 28% of them can experience an orgasm from penetrative sex alone. Most women also require clitoral stimulation, she asserts. It has to do with how the penis and vagina are constructed, as well as the location of the g-crest, among other factors.

Many of the young men I encounter claim that all of their female partners have benefited from penetrating sex, but it's possible that their partners are merely acting very well. No matter the gender, orgasming lasts an average of four minutes, according to Tanya. However, in partnered sex, it takes women about seventeen and a half minutes, compared to about five and a half minutes for men.

 Realistically, for the female to experience orgasm during sex, there must be some form of non-penetrative stimulation. Due to a lack of information regarding orgasms in trans people, this article only addresses the orgasm gap between cisgender men and women. Below, you can hear the entire segment about the orgasm gap.

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